I spoke to Adina Bresge of Canadian Press about recently reuniting with my childhood best friends of 44 years. And the relationships lost as a result of COVID related pressures and stressors that just could not be overcome. A bittersweet moment in time, this is.
https://www.thestar.com/life/2021/07/21/a-light-at-the-end-of-the-tunnel-canadians-hug-loved-ones-in-post-vaccine-reunions.html
When Anita Szigeti of Toronto reunited with her best friends of 44 years, she said it felt like she held onto them for an hour, even though the hug probably only lasted a minute.
“It really had the effect of changing my whole outlook on life,” said Szigeti. “I was not fully prepared for all of the emotions that I would have — not just when I first saw them, but lingering for so long for the rest of the day and into the weekend.”
But Szigeti said that profound sense of connection also brought home the weight of all that has been lost during the pandemic, including some relationships that didn’t survive the strain of lockdown.
“Many of us have sustained serious losses interpersonally,” she said. “We may have missed our last chance to hug people that we loved…. And even with the people who are returning into our lives now, we’ve lost this year-and-a-half with them.”
About Anita Szigeti
• Called to the Bar (1992)
• U of T Law grad (1990)
• Sole practitioner (33 years)
• Partner in small law firm (Hiltz Szigeti) 2002 - 2013
• Mom to two astonishing kids, Scarlett (20+) and Sebastian (20-)
• (Founding) Chair of Mental Health Legal Committee for ten years (1997 to 2007)
* Founding President of Law and Mental Disorder Association - LAMDA since 2017
* Founder and Secretary to Women in Canadian Criminal Defence - WiCCD - since 2022
• Counsel to clients with serious mental health issues before administrative tribunals and on appeals
• Former Chair, current member of LAO’s mental health law advisory committee
• Educator, lecturer, widely published author (including 5 text books on consent and capacity law, Canadian civil mental health law, the criminal law of mental disorder, a law school casebook and a massive Anthology on all things mental health and the law)
• Thirty+ years’ experience as counsel to almost exclusively legally aided clients
• Frequently appointed amicus curiae
• Fearless advocate
• Not entirely humourless