Update on My Stalkers – They’re Cowards

My History of Being Stalked is Finally Over and I’ve Conquered the Bullies

Only took 5.5 years but I’ve done it – praying it will stay this way forever.

Here is the background

My public note to them that may have done the job

and my

UPDATE – September 2025

Finally rid of the lot of them – and thank God.

Each has learned to back off and stay away at serious cost to their professional and personal reputations, rather than face me in a public forum.

It’s a Win with a capital “W” I didn’t expect but it does make sense.

None of these people has any real strength, integrity of character or any adult emotions they can access.

Now they’re just running scared which only means I can breathe.

It’s going to be wonderful to know they will not be contaminating my space.

I’m looking forward to writing and publishing my story about these people who robbed me of a big chunk of my life because they had no self-respect, no sense of their own worth, nothing in their lives but their toxic relationship to each other.

In retrospect I learned a lot from all this – I’ve never been happier than in the last half decade without them. Never more successful, never more fulfilled, focusing my energies on things and people who matter.

Life is good when you surround yourself with people who see your value and reciprocate love in kind.

PS – Quick Question for Stalker Harasser # 1 – THE MAN – What does the “J” stand for?- I didn’t realize you had a middle name. In fact I recall being told more than 20 years ago that you did not. ‘course I now know you as just “Art.” I wanna get this right when I set it down for posterity tho, don’t I?

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About Anita Szigeti

• Called to the Bar (1992) • U of T Law grad (1990) • Sole practitioner (33 years) • Partner in small law firm (Hiltz Szigeti) 2002 - 2013 • Mom to two astonishing kids, Scarlett (20+) and Sebastian (20-) • (Founding) Chair of Mental Health Legal Committee for ten years (1997 to 2007) * Founding President of Law and Mental Disorder Association - LAMDA since 2017 * Founder and Secretary to Women in Canadian Criminal Defence - WiCCD - since 2022 • Counsel to clients with serious mental health issues before administrative tribunals and on appeals • Former Chair, current member of LAO’s mental health law advisory committee • Educator, lecturer, widely published author (including 5 text books on consent and capacity law, Canadian civil mental health law, the criminal law of mental disorder, a law school casebook and a massive Anthology on all things mental health and the law) • Thirty+ years’ experience as counsel to almost exclusively legally aided clients • Frequently appointed amicus curiae • Fearless advocate • Not entirely humourless
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